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Hmong people
tend to live at quite high altitudes, the smallest
of villages clustered at the tops of mountain peaks.
Village practices are often dictated by Hmong
religious beliefs (which do not include gods) in
spirits occupying all sorts of natural items such as
rivers and trees, and in ancestor worship.
Sometimes a
house or a village can be marked ‘off-limits’ for a
period of time, meaning that the house or village
cannot accept visitors. For example, immediately
after a woman gives birth, her house becomes
off-limits to married women. If a married woman
comes to visit, she might secretly be pregnant, and
the new mother fears the visitor will ‘steal’ the
her nursing milk. As is the duty of the woman of the
house, the new mother will repeatedly invite guests,
even married women, to come and visit. But under no
circumstances should a married woman take her up on
the invitation! If she does, she’ll have to return
later with an offering to apologize for 'stealing'
the new mother’s milk.
In case of
sickness, a spirit-practitioner called a twix
neeb may conduct a ceremony to call the
wandering souls of those who are ill. This makes a
household or a whole village ‘off-limits’ to
visitors for the duration of the malady, and is
indicated by a waist-high pole topped with a bamboo
disk and green leaves set up next to the door or
village gate.
According to the
Hmong beliefs, a child is named three days after
birth in a 'soul-calling' ceremony, where a twix
neeb or other prominent figure does not simply
give a child a name, but calls a soul to come and
inhabit the body. Throughout a Hmong person's life
many illnesses and other problems are attributed to
the loss of this soul, which must be found and
called back to the body before the owner can get
well.
One of the
biggest problems currently facing Hmong youth is the
early age of marriage. Many girls marry when they
are only 12 - 14 years old. The couples have not
learned a skill and do not have a way to provide for
themselves, much less care for their children when
they have them. Girls often marry early because they
are afraid they will be rejected by their boyfriends
if they do not. However, girls who are able to get
an education typically wait till they are about 25 -
28 years old before marrying. |